Woman: ‘Disappointed’ stepdad removed from sex offender list

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Kaitlyn Barclay says her stepfather molested her four times when she was 12

SALEM, Ore. (KOIN) – – A sexual abuse survivor is speaking out after her abuser’s sex offender status was reversed.

Kaitlyn Barclay, 30, says her ex-stepdad molested her as a child four times, touching her under her clothes when her mother was out of the house. He also “groomed” her in between instances of abuse, she said, and “gaslighted” both her and her mother.

Paul Wayne Landaker, 66, initially plead not guilty for an incident that got him arrested which took place in Lake Oswego in 2002. He ultimately took a plea deal and served five years in prison and has had to register as a sex offender each year since, until now.

Kaitlyn Barclay, 30, said she was ‘disappointed’ that her ex stepdad successfully petitioned the state to get removed from the sex offender registry after he molested her on multiple occasions as a child.

Barclay told KOIN 6 news she was “disappointed” but not surprised at the outcome for the man who she said sexually abused her when he was 48 and she was just 12.

“I’m not surprised that at this point in my life that there isn’t a ton of protections against what happened to me,” Barclay said.

She added that compared to many other women’s stories in instances of sexual abuse, she found herself to be extremely lucky and privileged that her mother believed her when she came forward and that she was able to go through the initial trial that resulted in punishment for Landaker.

In Oregon, low level sex offenders can petition the state’s board of parole and post-prison supervision to be “relieved” from having to re-register as a sex offender each year, under certain restrictions and criteria.

Landaker was the lowest level sex offender, level one out of three. He became eligible to make the petition following five years after his supervision ended. He was granted a hearing at a Salem courthouse Tuesday, which disallowed cameras.

When asked at his hearing by the board why Landaker wanted to have his sex offender status stricken, he said: “It’s been over 15 years…I would like to move on with my life, possibly move on to another state.”

Paul Wayne Landaker had been a registered sex offender since 2005 after he was arrested for an incident involving his stepdaughter in 2002 in Lake Oswego. After a hearing requesting relief, he will no longer have to register as a sex offender. (Oregon State Police)

Landaker pleaded his case for relief, which obliges providing the parole board with “clear and convincing evidence” that he’s not likely to re-offend and doesn’t pose a threat to the general public. That included pointing out that he did not have a criminal record before the incident and hasn’t committed a crime since, experienced financial hardships, and that it was a chapter in his life he truly regrets.

The parole board also asked him questions related to healthy relationships with others and what support system he had in place since then.

Though Landaker cited having a “lack of judgement,” he essentially described the incident itself as giving his then stepdaughter a massage after asking and receiving permission from Barclay, who then found it to be uncomfortable.

Barclay vehemently disputes the claim that she welcomed the touching, as well as Landaker’s assertion that the incident was a one-time event.

“The trope of sexual assault ever being a misunderstanding is a metaphor that is too often used,” Barclay said.

Barclay testified before the board at Landaker’s hearing that the incidents caused her significant emotional trauma, like recurring nightmares and difficulty feeling safe around men.

Despite that, she said she overcame those hardships and helped to launch a successful public relations company in New York City.

The irony was not lost on Barclay that Landaker was requesting “relief,” something that she said is elusive for many survivors of sexual assault.

“Relief. I think of the relief that I craved when I was 12, desperately attempting, but unable, to make friends with any of my male peers because I was too afraid of them. I want relief from the hours spent, the dollars spent, the tears spent at therapy trying to unpack what he did to me and how it will affect every part of my life, for the rest of my life,” Barclay said, choked with emotion, as a family member sobbed. “As long as I do not have relief from what [he] did, I do not believe that [he] should have relief from [his] sexual offender registration.”

Barclay said she was inspired to testify in hopes it will encourage more women to tell their stories of sexual abuse.

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